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Post by Lucy on Sept 12, 2005 11:44:43 GMT -5
I'm not sure how much of Jae-min's feelings for and about In-young are simply that he doesn't want to admit attraction and/or love. I think a widowed father in that situation would be feeling sadness when he knows that his son wants a mother and has a particular lady in mind. Because what can he do about it? He can't just marry her because his son is longing for a mother--she is still involved with Ki-joon, emotionally speaking. He must feel very bad for Him-chan, and he probably still misses his wife, too. He might be getting ready to move on, and obviously he really cares about In-young, but I think he knows that situation is really sticky all around. He's a good guy and wouldn't want to come between In-young and Ki-joon.
But if you guys watched the subtitled previews, unless I dreamed it, something is in the works in this regard, and I think it will happen quite soon.
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Post by Soju on Sept 12, 2005 13:45:17 GMT -5
How about In-kyung and Jin-ah meet while in the US, and without realizing who the other is, they become best friends.
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Post by Lucy on Sept 12, 2005 14:24:41 GMT -5
Interesting scenario. I don't think we know where Jin-ah went, though. Maybe it was "Pu-rahnce" (France), since so many K-drama characters go there, or "Italia," as Andrea did. I do want to know how In-kyung is, though.
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Post by Lovely on Sept 13, 2005 8:29:08 GMT -5
Jae-min is a good guy. His concern for In-young could turn into love. He is always worried about her and doesn't want to see her in any stressful or painful situation. He wants to be with IY, but knows that he can't until IY fully recovers from her heartbreak of divorcing Ki-joon.
I thought it was totally wrong for In-young to do what she did yesterday. Grabbing onto Jae-min's arm so Ki-joon would think they were together? ScreechMom has done it again! She has forced IY to do as she says. And of course IY has to do it because she does want Ki-joon to remarry and find happiness elsewhere. But did In-young have to do that?! Ki-joon looked so upset and Jae-min was so surprised. I think Jae-min knew what was going on, but I wonder if he'll misunderstand her actions?
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Post by TheBo on Sept 13, 2005 15:28:15 GMT -5
Well, whatever is going on with this grouping, I do think Jae-min-jae is much more attractive than he was in OMR or even STIL. His character is much more open and easy-going, isn't he. Instead of seeming haunted (OMR) or crabby (STIL--that was my take on him), he lived with dignity through the tragedy with his wife, has let her go to a better place and is now living life fully for his son's sake. Most attractive.
Bo
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Post by BAE on Sept 13, 2005 20:41:42 GMT -5
I agree completely with you, Bo. He has developed a little. It's nice to know that he's able to fluctuate between different types of characters though. It brings a sense of nonexpectancy. However, I don't like the blatent (sp.) disregrad IY has for his feelings. "please tell him that we're in a marriageable relationship"? What is that IY? I expected better from her.
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Post by ovaridedis24 on Sept 13, 2005 21:32:02 GMT -5
However, I don't like the blatent (sp.) disregrad IY has for his feelings. "please tell him that we're in a marriageable relationship"? What is that IY? I expected better from her. Yeah, I can't believe she did that, for someone who's constantly worried about other's feelings, I'm surprised she told him to tell KJ that without thinking of how she's using JM.
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Post by Lovely on Sept 14, 2005 10:00:02 GMT -5
In-young did tell Jae-min, "I'm sorry." But she kept saying it repeatedly that it got annoying. She says it with tears at the brim of her eyes and gives that sad face. Jae-min, who is falling for In-young but is in denial due to her situation, cannot say no. I feel bad that IY is using JM of all people. How can she do that to JM and to Him-chan?! It's like IY is playing a game of love.
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Post by Lucy on Sept 14, 2005 10:09:46 GMT -5
I can't believe she let herself be manipulated and used by SM once again! How long have they been divorced, and how many awful positions has her terrible ex-MIL put her into?? For heaven's sake, Ki-joon's ability to get over her should not have to depend on her ability to lie to him and hurt him so that he gives up on her. How about an honest talk?* He has no idea of the terrible things SM has said to her and made her do, throughout their marriage and after.
*Granted that Ki-joon has to be hit over the head with a lead pipe before he will ever let go of In-young . . . but why do lies and deception always have to come into it?
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Post by ginnycat5 on Sept 14, 2005 13:47:58 GMT -5
I can't believe she let herself be manipulated and used by SM once again! How long have they been divorced, and how many awful positions has her terrible ex-MIL put her into?? For heaven's sake, Ki-joon's ability to get over her should not have to depend on her ability to lie to him and hurt him so that he gives up on her. How about an honest talk?* He has no idea of the terrible things SM has said to her and made her do, throughout their marriage and after. *Granted that Ki-joon has to be hit over the head with a lead pipe before he will ever let go of In-young . . . but why do lies and deception always have to come into it? Yes! I kept putting my own dialogue in, I didn't want to see you again-that goes double for me, you witch. We keep meeting like this-wish I weren't here either, you %$$#@. Not very clever, but SM is insufferable, and I just can't let her blather on as if she were the most important person in the world. At least she had the grace to be thankful to IY and express it to her. But then SM didn't have the sense to let KJ mourn one day before starting up the dating business again.
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Post by Lovely on Sept 30, 2005 9:51:46 GMT -5
The love triangle is on! Finally.....Jae-min admitted to In-young that he loves her! I really respect the way Jae-min did that. He told her in a calm and sincere manner, "In-young, I love you." Unlike that jerk Ki-joon who like said it so meanly, "I love you! I can't control it!" He was basically telling her in a stressful state that he loved her and it was up to her to make the next move. But sweet Jae-min was so nice about it, "I love you, but I know you still love Ki-joon. I am going to let you think about me when you settle down your feelings."
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Post by Hannah on Oct 1, 2005 17:26:23 GMT -5
Oh man, I love that guy jamin, he is so perfect. I don't understand why inyoung seems all sad that jamin told her his feelings for her. i'm sure she knew before he told her. but why does she seem sad about it? I dont get her, Jamin is fine, much more than kijoon. LOL
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Post by ovaridedis24 on Oct 1, 2005 17:54:34 GMT -5
I don't think she's sad about his feelings for her, I think she's just uncomfortable since she has to work with him and all, and since she's obviously still in love w/ Ki-joon, the man-child, I don't think she wants to hurt Jae-min.
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Post by sandy on Oct 1, 2005 22:08:22 GMT -5
I think In-young is a loving, compassionate person who wants to make sure that Ki-joon is totally committed to Hee-joo before she becomes involved with Jae-min. IY really doesn't think much about what she wants or what she's been through with KJ. It's her nature to see that others are happy, even at her own expense.
I think she really has feelings for JM, but is forming a relationship with him very slowly. She formed one with KJ very quickly, much to her own unhappiness and demise. I think IY is slower in her relationship with JM because Him-chan is involved. IY doesn't want to rush into marriage with JM, then having HC becoming attached to her as "Mom", only to have it end in another divorce.
IY is a real gem. She and JM are lacking a spouse, one through divorce, the other through death. IY knows that Him-chan will become her responsibility as his new mother. I think IY and JM will eventually marry and maybe even have a child between them. JM doesn't seem to have a controlling mother who demands that a new wife produces grandchildren for her.
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Post by ovaridedis24 on Oct 7, 2005 9:42:03 GMT -5
When did JM ever propose to IY, I remember that one scene where he tells her that whenever she gets over KJ, give him a chance, but I don't ever remember seeing an actual proposal...unless that was the proposal.
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