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Post by Avalon on Sept 24, 2003 20:19:39 GMT -5
What can we say, MJ cried wolf once before by threatening SM with divorce and almost succeeded. The first time was because she found out that SM had a son out of wedlock and was not ready to give him up to JY. She is willing to deny another person the possiblity of making things right. Now as the series winds down she is again threatening divorce and may succeed in getting what she wants. The second time MJ threatens and follows through with a divorce is for a totally different reason. MJ cannot stomach having SM's son on his family registry. For a woman who is used to being in charge her family will grow without her firsthand participation. She will only be a passive witness to her husband's action. She is thinking, "How dare he do this." And at the end of the day if MJ finds herself alone and unhappy she has no one else to blame except herself. She reaped what she sowed. Of course this does not speak to SM's reprehensible action to file a complaint to nullify YJ's claim. Bottomline: it is a lose lose situation as far as SM and MJ are concerned. Neither one can get what each wants. Here is another thing, SM keeps claiming that he is doing it in the name of truth...not realizing that his first betrayal of JY started the series of events that make uncovering the truth painful for all concerned. He violated a fundamental law from the beginning: DO NO HARM.
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Post by james on Sept 24, 2003 21:02:42 GMT -5
I think you are right. but I think the best soultion is for him to let young-joon adpot Ji-min. Min-joo is selfish and crazy. She is not thinking about yuna. Yuna is a daddys girl and she will only suffer is they divorce. Min-joo should just let her husband claim him on the family tree. That is all he can do anyway. according to the law they talk about on the show. I think he is crazy. What kind of father can he be in name only.
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Post by Avalon on Sept 25, 2003 16:49:47 GMT -5
I agree about Yuna being daddy's girl. MJ is so self-absorbed and selfish that she is only interested in satisfying her own need to be in control and to punish SM. How does an arrogant woman deal with hurt pride? If she thought about her daughter Yuna and how much she loves her daddy, she would pause and reconsider. When the divorce goes through poor Yuna is going to suffer.
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Post by INDEBWETRUST on Sept 29, 2003 15:49:27 GMT -5
thanks for the spoiler--- I was wondering how that would play out--and y es minjoo is crazy--and yes sang min is the one to blame for the whole mess--if he hadn't dumped poor ja young in the first place none of this would be happening and what's up with this new attitude that sang-min father has--he was such a nice and goofy man in the earlier part of the show now I despise him as i despise snag min- but you know how the saying goes-- what goes around comes around
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