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Post by JadeEyes on Jul 18, 2003 15:45:31 GMT -5
I'm not sure exactly what you're saying here, Lovely.
Young-joon, for all intents and purposes, TEXThasTEXT severed ties w/ Grandma Sohn. He has told Ja-young emphatically that he would like his grandma's approval, but if she wont' give it, he's prepared to live apart from her and have no further contact permanently, if that's necessary, than to give up Ja-young. But this is not acceptable to Ja-young. It goes against her personal principles to marry a man against his family's wishes. So, severing ties w/ his grandmother has not brought Ja-young any closer to accepting the idea of marrying Young-joon w/o Grandma Sohn's blessings.
I don't think there's a chance in the world Ja-young and Sang-min will ever be reconciled. I would like to see JY and YJ find their way to each other, and possibly that will happen in the end. But I doubt it will be any time soon. I see the obstacles keeping them apart sticking around for some time to come.
Jade Eyes
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Post by Lovely on Jul 19, 2003 8:19:49 GMT -5
Hey Jade Eyes, I'm sorry you weren't sure of exactly what I was saying.
So YJ has already severed his ties with Grandma Sohn then? He only moved out of his house, but he's not exactly cut off yet, right? SM could possibly get together with JY again because of the baby, but like I wrote earlier, that wouldn't be the best idea. SM was a jerk for the way he treated JY in the first place. Now that JY has went away, does any1 else feel that YJ will eventually find her? Oh man, I hope JY and YJ get married in the end!!
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Post by JadeEyes on Jul 19, 2003 10:29:57 GMT -5
I think we're talking about a difference of degrees here. Yes, YJ moved out--which isn't always the same as severing ties. But in this case, he wasn't coming around to see Grandma Sohn or calling her to talk or check in. I'm sure he called her when he was in the States. If Ja-young would've married Young-joon and grandma would not have agreed to accept them, I'm sure YJ would remain estranged from her for as long as necessary--until her death, if she never relented. He did come by the house once after moving out, but that was only for the memorial service for his parents.
I guess my point is, it seems to me YJ is very ready and willing to stay permanently estranged from his grandmother if she refuses to accept Ja-young as the women he loves and wishes to marry. He has made this very clear to JY, and when he did, she made the decision to break off their relationship and go into hiding so he can't find her. Which means that YJ severing ties w/ his grandmother is not a solution if he wants to be w/ JY.
There are only two possibilities here I can see: either Grandma Sohn relents and agrees to accept the marriage, or Young-joon can convince Ja-young to marry him even w/o the blessing of his grandmother--which we already know is an option she opposes adamantly. I suppose another option might be if the grandmother dies at some point...she won't be around to oppose the marriage anymore, so, theoretically, YJ and JY could do as they please. But I have a feeling that still wouldn't be good enough for JY because she'd have to know the grandmother changed her mind before she died.
But I too want very much to see YJ and JY get together, and there's no way I would want to see JY and SM reconcile--not even for the sake of the baby (assuming he finds out about it). I know that YJ will search for JY...I don't know if or when he will find her, but the man is nothing if not resourceful. I'd say the odds are in his favor for finding her--eventually. I just don't know what will be different when he does.
Jade Eyes
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Post by Lovely on Jul 19, 2003 15:05:00 GMT -5
Ok, thanks for the information, Jade Eyes! I agree that I do not want to see JY and SM get back together either, but it could be a small possibility, like some of the other YH addicts said. It doesn't seem like Grandma Sohn is ever going to give YJ and JY her blessing......but on the last episode, Hyun-ji overheard YJ and his grandma, so now she knows! I know there is A LOT more drama to go, but in the end, I hope that JY and YJ are together. YH addict -----> LOVELY
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