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Post by humble on Oct 14, 2003 16:02:45 GMT -5
can you tell me why we see sang-mins dad always asking about and wanting to see ji-min? why does he not want to see yuna?
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Luvz
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Post by Luvz on Oct 14, 2003 16:31:03 GMT -5
Sang-min and Min-joo adopted Yuna after MJ had a miscarriage and then a hysterectomy so she is unable to bear children. Jimin is SM's son and his father's only true grandchild. His father never wanted them to adopt because the child would not be a blood relative.
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Post by Nellie on Oct 14, 2003 16:33:15 GMT -5
I feel bad that Grandpa cannot see that Yuna also is his grandchild. Sure makes you realize the importance of 'blood' with some folks. I do understand his way of thinking... Ji-min represents his blood line. Without Ji-min their line ends. My objection is the way Grandpa is going about trying to secure that line. I think JY will give in & allow them visitation. What makes her want to prevent them from having access to Ji-min is 1. The confusing/stigma of having a different last name than his father (step-father) AND, 2. Grandpa's way of trying to bully her into giving him visitation. Even threatening to take Ji-min away. He frightened JY into her current stance on the situation. As soon as you try to push someone into submission there will be resistance... JY seems the type to try to compromise.. Just needs a little time... I've watched enough of these stories to know that (at least all that I've seen so far) they end happily.
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Post by mikey on Oct 14, 2003 17:07:09 GMT -5
. . . Grandpa's way of trying to bully her into giving him visitation. Even threatening to take Ji-min away. Absolutely right. Ja-young’s a pretty loving person, and she once had genuinely warm feelings for Sang-min’s father – but his bullying has completely turned her off, maybe even frightened her. And Ja-young has already proven herself to be one stubborn woman, when she’s of a mind to be so. Now, she’s not gonna budge, for sure. Too bad he couldn’t figure out that she’d likely have allowed him a discrete peek into his grandson’s life now and then if he’d only been persistently polite and gentle about his requests.
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Post by Rosetta on Oct 15, 2003 12:40:07 GMT -5
Another reason JY is trying to postpose visits from SM is that she truly believes he is a despicable person -- remember a few episodes ago when she said this to him in the cafe?
I certainly wouldn't want SM as the father of my son!
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