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Post by pilseung on Apr 18, 2008 18:10:14 GMT -5
I'd like his father to find out how he's been behaving! He'd give him a good smack with some power behind it!! Too bad Jiyeung isn't assertive; she just keeps it all to herself, so different people have seen different bits of his abuse of her, but nobody knows it all. I agree with you about Gi-tae.He's really an outstanding father and would truly try to discipline Seon-jae. Jiyeong IS weak but gentle.I cant dislike her now.I find she's got a kind heart and she's ever so faithful.Even though,it is unfortunate,that she feels loyalty to someone as undeserving as Seon-jae.
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Post by puppy on Apr 18, 2008 18:50:52 GMT -5
It's hard to tell what Jiyeong feels. She says she's over Seonjae but keeps meeting him when he calls and doing that mooney-face thing. I half believe she'll let him sweet talk her but into WHAT?
Why can't she see what a prince Ujin is?
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Post by pilseung on Apr 19, 2008 2:49:40 GMT -5
It's hard to tell what Jiyeong feels. She says she's over Seonjae but keeps meeting him when he calls and doing that mooney-face thing. I half believe she'll let him sweet talk her but into WHAT? Why can't she see what a prince Ujin is? I think she's just one of those people in life that remain faithfully in love with one person.This,despite being treated badly,like Seon-jae has been to her.It's a tragedy,but she just remembers the good times she's spent with him and seems to block out all the bad stuff.She probably even feels guilty to fall for Ujin.That's why she can't commit herself to poor Ujin.Sigh!
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Post by mostshady on Apr 20, 2008 13:03:13 GMT -5
to be honest, i hope Jiyeong gets wats comin to her too cuz she had more than enough time to get over Seonjae but she never commits to gettin over him. yes she says she is over him but than why does she always meet and make the trapped sad face. i used to like her but now im jus getin tried of her, they are datin...wait should that be called "dating", cuz he always had to make her to wit him and she also had the trapped face, so idk if it should be called "datin"
idk if this a spoiler???
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Post by kumbis16 on Apr 21, 2008 12:09:01 GMT -5
sometimes I really feel bad for JY. I don't think these people really gave her time to get over SJ. First it was Suah coming around almost all the time( until Ujin kind of scared her away) and now SJ is bothering her too. Like what the hell. How can you forget someone you see all the time?
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Post by puppy on Apr 21, 2008 14:53:59 GMT -5
Good point, Kumbis. She went away to her aunt's right after it happened. Maybe she should have stayed there.
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Post by foodmaven on Apr 21, 2008 19:08:53 GMT -5
Puppy, I wish the writers would have given JY enough backbone to stop longing for a man who did not treat her honorably. SJ seems like a man who believes JY will never get over him. JY could give him a real shock by demonstrating that she doesn't need SJ in her life.
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Post by sheila on Apr 21, 2008 23:44:08 GMT -5
Kumblis16, you and I often seem to have different points of view. I like that as it helps me broaden my view of how to regard the situation!
I agree with what foodmaven wrote. Its not like Jiyeong was in love with someone who unfortunately fell for someone else or circumstances prevented them being together. He was cold, very disrespectful to her, bluntly said that a life with her is worthless to him because another woman can provide him with instant wealth and power.
To me, only someone with very low self-respect would still want to cling on to such a person. She makes herself so pathetic that even though I despise him, I too can see why he would not want her. LOL!
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Post by pilseung on Apr 22, 2008 3:41:55 GMT -5
Puppy, I wish the writers would have given JY enough backbone to stop longing for a man who did not treat her honorably. SJ seems like a man who believes JY will never get over him. JY could give him a real shock by demonstrating that she doesn't need SJ in her life. Maybe the writers are showing us the Korean version of: LOVE IS BLIND!! ;D
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Post by foodmaven on Apr 22, 2008 19:13:29 GMT -5
pilseung:
my mother is Korean, and she thinks JY should get a spine and snap out of it. The writers made her character almost unbearably weak. She needs a little of her aunt's spunk.
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Post by kumbis16 on Apr 23, 2008 12:25:48 GMT -5
Aha Sheila but she's in LUUUV. Unfortunately she fell for the wrong guy. I don't like it either when she gets that trapped look but I saw her making efforts lately with Sonbae( what does that mean anyway??). But with SJ showing up all the time that can't be helpful, can it? it just makes it harder for her(I speak from experience unfortunately).
Sheila I like that we think different too ;D. It's always good to see the other side of a situation and what other people think. I'm not narrow minded (like SJ)at all. I do voice my opinions but I also know to listen to what others have to say.
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Post by pilseung on Apr 23, 2008 12:36:51 GMT -5
she's in LUUUV. Unfortunately she fell for the wrong guy. Kumbis I'm totally with you.Love isn't always a bed of roses!
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Post by tinkerbell on Apr 23, 2008 16:33:57 GMT -5
Ditto. Jiyeong definitely is not over Seonjae even though she says she is. She told Ujin she has a lot of pain to work through. I'm assuming this was Jiyeong's first relationship and they were planning to get married. It's understandable she's not going to get over it quickly. Burns take time to heal, some longer than others. Considering her personality type she has a hard time letting go. I agree that she has low self-esteem and as pilseung said she seems to only remember the good times. I can see her going back to Seonjae if he started being nice to her again and wanted her back. She would forget all the mean and bad things in a heartbeat. Look at all the abused women who don't leave the men in their lives because "they love them". They don't think enough of themselves and think nobody else would want them. Her attitude needs to change towards herself. Jiyeong is a mild mannered person and she needs to learn that she can be that way without being a doormat. She's young and inexperienced plus a people pleaser. She'll learn, hopefully sooner rather than later for her sake.
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Post by ginnycat5 on Apr 23, 2008 17:05:56 GMT -5
Aha Sheila but she's in LUUUV. Unfortunately she fell for the wrong guy. I don't like it either when she gets that trapped look but I saw her making efforts lately with Sonbae( what does that mean anyway??). But with SJ showing up all the time that can't be helpful, can it? it just makes it harder for her(I speak from experience unfortunately). Sheila I like that we think different too ;D. It's always good to see the other side of a situation and what other people think. I'm not narrow minded (like SJ)at all. I do voice my opinions but I also know to listen to what others have to say. Sonbae/sunbae is what you call your senior if you went to school together, as I understand it. I don't know if it's only used by a girl to a boy, or not. We've heard it in a number of shows. There's probably a word to name the younger one, but I don't hear it (not that they don't say it). Like "unni" --oh-- that's for an older girl/woman, so I guess "Sunbae" is for a guy. Lucy told me the word for the younger woman, but I forgot it. Age is a big deal among coworkers or neighbors or friends, dating or not, I think. Younger ones are supposed to be (somewhat) deferential.
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Post by puppy on Apr 27, 2008 9:04:58 GMT -5
Foodmaven, I like your tag. If I weren't Puppy, I might be Foody.
And Tink, do you actually believe Jiyeong would take Seonjae back? He's married. It would have to be an affair or he'd have to get divorced. The former option doesn't seem in keeping with her character and the latter won't sit well with her family
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