Seochill Dec 12, 2006 11:17:55 GMT -5
Post by BAE on Dec 12, 2006 11:17:55 GMT -5
soapygrams said:Michill disgusts me MOST OF THE TIME - She is so self-centered she cannot even begin to see anyone else's pain -- It's a hard decision to make about telling a child he/she is adopted unless you start right from the beginning so that the child knows how "special" he/she is -- almost all adopted children want to meet their bio parents if possible. Not that they want to walk away from the parents who raised them but because they are truly curious as to what their mother and father look like and what kind of people they are and why they were put up for adoption. This is very natural and in this country, we have come to understand that it's the child's right to that information, most especially medical history - is so important. I think if they had told Seolchill the truth from the beginning when she was a small child, she would have felt much differently about her situation. Right now she is in shock - not even acting like herself; her dad should not lie to her about her mother abandoning her - by saying no she didn't makes Seolchill think she was only taken into his family to assuage his guilt over the accidental shooting of her father. Excuses could be made for the mother -- no way to support herself etc. possibly even the truth - I don't understand why there is so much lying going on all the time in these stories - I find lying to be an extremely disgusting action and the truth usually is a better idea all around anyway. Just MHO --
(Soapy, I fixed your bold tags. Lucy)
I have to say that I completely agree with you soapy. There's no need for all this lying that happens in Korean Dramas. If the writers for these dramas are really seeking to keep the viewers in their grasp then they should really think of better storylines. All this lying really gets sickening after a while. It's like the truth can never really set anyone free and the moment that someone does spill the beans, all seems to be either well or really bad. But hey, at least someone said something.
I don't think Michill has any right to say anything to anyone in the family, I think I've said this before, but she's just about the worst daughter and sister a parent could have. I seriously wonder where Ilhan feels this sense of love for her from. I don't get how anyone could love Michill, as mad as she is.