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Post by hachiue on Feb 7, 2005 16:06:35 GMT -5
Seriously, though, you don't have to be in love with someone to treat them with a modicum of respect. Perhaps that's it though - he can't respect her because she basically sold herself into this marriage and he probably doubts whether she really loves him because of the circumstances in which they were married.
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Post by panther on Feb 7, 2005 19:02:46 GMT -5
i also get the feeling that both of them is doubting their love for one another. i guess its like once the smoke cleared and everything settled back down to normal they both look at each other like "okay...what do we do now?"
i think hee-soo is dissatisfied with her marriage because she realizes that she's not in a real marriage. she didint fall in love like normal people, they didint court eachother or nothing of the like. they have nothing in common. hee-soo is misarable and jin-kook is just confussed. he's not sure what to do, like he told her before "dont look to me for happiness" she should have took that to heed before getting married.
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Post by BAE on Feb 7, 2005 20:03:37 GMT -5
i also get the feeling that both of them is doubting their love for one another. i guess its like once the smoke cleared and everything settled back down to normal they both look at each other like "okay...what do we do now?" i think hee-soo is dissatisfied with her marriage because she realizes that she's not in a real marriage. she didint fall in love like normal people, they didint court eachother or nothing of the like. they have nothing in common. hee-soo is misarable and jin-kook is just confussed. he's not sure what to do, like he told her before "dont look to me for happiness" she should have took that to heed before getting married. and in today's episode, this emotion you brought up panther, is exemplified. she remembers arguing with her mother about her love for jin-kook and i think that she's begun to regret defending him... she's like nora in ibsen's A doll's house. where in the end, she reaslizes that her husband only loves her because she stands at the door to greet him all pretty and she's his little lark. someone who will toot to his tune. Gosh! cute boy jin-kook really pisses me off.... he needs to respect her instead of judging. i wish they, as in the writers, would give more depth into his character, where he actually seems like a human being...
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Post by panther on Feb 8, 2005 18:37:22 GMT -5
yea it seems that jin kook is so superficial. i mean the writers should really give that character some type of depth. see what he's thinking, like why dont he respect hee-soo? do he love her? do he love someone else? it was in another thread that everyone was saying how jin-kook mistreat his wife and i totally agree, but hee-soo dosent command respect. if she went into that house with her head held high instead of running behind her inlaws and husband like a puppy they wouldent be treating her like one now.
if hee-soo was serious about changing her current situation she need to find another effective way besides pouting and complaining. for example having a copy of some divorce papers on jin-kook pillow when he got home would defiantly hit home.
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Post by TheBo on Feb 9, 2005 11:48:53 GMT -5
...if hee-soo was serious about changing her current situation she need to find another effective way besides pouting and complaining. for example having a copy of some divorce papers on jin-kook pillow when he got home would defiantly hit home. Yeah, ZAP! That'd get their attention. "What, you do not want to continue being our emotional punching bag? Drat, foiled again!" Bo
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Post by toranaga on Feb 9, 2005 20:34:49 GMT -5
SOMEBODY really should tell ESM. that the only reason that she is back in the house is because of the efforts of hee-soo;this woman takes every chance she gets to backstab hee-soo to dumbdad,and he is to stupid to see that he is being manipulated again,hee-soo should spike the kimchi with **** the very next time she cooks for her ungrateful 'IN-LAWS" DD tells her all the time that she is part of "THIS FAMILY"now but all he does is listen to that ungrateful ****all the time,I think he has forgotten who took care of him and jin-soo after his stroke and he certainly forgot who the person was that caused the stroke.
I know this post is one day late but it took me an extra day to figure a way to post my opinion of DD and that ***** that was suitable for this site.
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Post by panther on Feb 9, 2005 23:04:22 GMT -5
esm is a evil master ;D
you cant help but love her diabolical skill. she steals money, run away, come back and have golfer dad and jin kook...JIN-KOOK PEOPLE!!! kowtowing to her. i cant believe it. i mean if i was hee-soo i would turn to my husband and say "what happend to you?" then in a daze i would pack my things and go to my aunt for a speedy divorce.
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Post by hachiue on Feb 9, 2005 23:06:55 GMT -5
I hear you toranaga (you too panther, sorry we cross-posted!). I have trouble referring to ESM in any way that doesn't involve four-letter words, and one five letter word in particular. The stupid dad is just as bad, too. Everyone knows it was Heesoo that got them back together but they are not appreciative at all. And that scene in the kitchen today when they were saying that she was taking advantage of Jinkook when he suggested they go out was just terrible - maybe they should try talking to other people instead of assuming what's going on beforehand as that already got ESM and Jinkook in trouble with Heesoo once - during the day when she actually stayed home for once but they didn't believe her or even ask her about it before accusing her of going out.
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Post by BAE on Feb 10, 2005 14:49:17 GMT -5
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Post by galacticchick on Feb 10, 2005 15:56:47 GMT -5
Hey Guys and Dolls:
Maybe I had a brain aneurysm or similar but didn't Young-lan say that the whole reason she didn't want to go to work was because she wanted to stay home and be a housewife? Didn't she say that it would be fun! She loved making meals for her family, smelling the clean laundry, etc, etc. She was smiling when she said this. And a couple of days later she's ticked of because her daughter in law isn't there to prepare them breakfast, to do their laundry, to clean their house.
These writers are so darn inconsistent. If I were Hesoo I'd definitely throw her own words in her face.
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Post by hachiue on Feb 10, 2005 16:36:54 GMT -5
You mean Youngsil instead of Younglan, right? I agree with you there. I think that they just love bossing her around because they're EVIL.
No, really, I think that she should stand up for herself and not care what everyone else thinks. I still think she got gypped b/c her new family was rich at the time of her marriage and she didn't get any fancy schmancy jewelry sets like everyone else gets. And she didn't even get a honeymoon. And she's pregnant but everyone's treating her like a scullery maid instead. She got gypped with this family, I tell ya. She should've gone off to man-catching school and found herself a real husband.
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Post by BAE on Feb 11, 2005 23:00:05 GMT -5
JK has no emotion when he hugs HS; it almost seems forced.
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Post by Lovely on Feb 12, 2005 16:33:52 GMT -5
ESM has some nerve to get DD overworked about the diamond ring. We know that Hee-soo didn't buy her mom the ring, but even if she did, so what?! Hee-soo has done a lot for her In-laws !
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Post by hachiue on Feb 14, 2005 17:58:10 GMT -5
Her inlaws are just bratty brats who apparently don't have enough in their lives so they have to talk about everyone else instead.
She could have been polite and said something along the lines of "that's a beautiful ring! Wherever did you get it?" at which point of course Jungae would have gushed about how generous her husband is.
Hey, what *did* Jinkook do with that gold bar? Maybe he gave it to Heesoo's father and so - indirectly - the ring was from the gold bar money.
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Post by panther on Feb 14, 2005 18:15:58 GMT -5
i think jin kook gave it to his mother in law but the ring she got was from hee-soo's father. he bought that with his own money
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