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Post by sandy on Dec 31, 2004 0:10:12 GMT -5
Seeing the shock on Jin-Kook's face, is he ready to be a father? We who have children know that it's a 100% involvement in their lives, at least until they're adults. After that, we still worry about them.
Will Jin-Kook accept a child into his life, or find himself burdened again with family responsibilities? In some ways, it seems that he hasn't grown up at all. Poor Hee-Soo doesn't seem to be getting the attention she needs, especially from her husband.
Unfortunately, I think her own mother will see her pregnancy as more of a problem to add to her problems between her son, his Ex, and Jung-hee. Hee-Soo's mother doesn't like Jin-Kook because of his involvement with the Ex.
I'm just hoping that Hee-Soo will find some happiness in a child of her own.
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Post by humble on Jan 4, 2005 8:26:44 GMT -5
well I really think he is after seeing his face on last nights esp. I think he is very happy. I think the mother hee-soo mother will be upset. I also think jin-soo the brother will like it.
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Post by Soju on Jan 4, 2005 22:55:52 GMT -5
What DOESN'T make Hee-soo's mother upset?
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Post by sandy on Jan 5, 2005 0:36:54 GMT -5
Ouch! This woman is so annoying and controlling that I wish she'd get a job.
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Post by toranaga unlogged on Jan 5, 2005 6:37:40 GMT -5
let's hope that after jee-hae wakes, up that her aunt will fall into a coma.
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Post by hachiue on Jan 5, 2005 9:44:59 GMT -5
That would be so sad, either way they handled it! Either she falls into a coma and everyone visits her just to tell her good riddance, or they visit her and fawn all over her in the hospital, lying through their teeth about how neat she was. Ugh.
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Post by Lucy on Jan 5, 2005 11:59:54 GMT -5
Since this thread is about Jin-kook, this is as good a place as any to ask why he is such a bad husband but Hee-soo seems not to notice? Is she an idiot? What is it she wants out of their life together, anyway? He says things to her like, "I was wishing I hadn't gotten married" (when she asked if he was "mad" at her when she was being so angry just before she found out she was pregnant--and, I might add, she was angry with cause), and she just giggles. Isn't a statement like that something that needs to be talked about?? He's saying, essentially, that if she is upset by his behavior and calls him on it, that's cause for him to regret getting married, like that makes her nothing but a nag. Nice thing to say, especially when she's pregnant.
I could understand her laughing stuff like that off if she were still the besotted child she was when they first got married, and if their arrangement were still explicitly one that gave all the power to Jin-kook, but she's put in a lot of time and given a lot more than he has, and yet he still acts as though she were subject to those stupid "rules" he made up for her: don't question me, don't expect anything of me, don't tell me what to do. For pete's sake. He's a jerk. Pretty, pretty man, and one who at one time deserved our sympathy to an extent, but if he can still act this way after all the love she's shown him, he's a shallow jerk.
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Post by galacticchick on Jan 5, 2005 13:20:50 GMT -5
Why he is such a bad husband but Hee-soo seems not to notice? Is she an idiot? He says things to her like, "I was wishing I hadn't gotten married" and she just giggles. Isn't a statement like that something that needs to be talked about?? ...and yet he still acts as though she were subject to those stupid "rules" he made up for her: don't question me, don't expect anything of me, don't tell me what to do. For pete's sake. He's a jerk. Pretty, pretty man, and one who at one time deserved our sympathy to an extent, but if he can still act this way after all the love she's shown him, he's a shallow jerk. Yes, yes, yes and YES! I don't know, maybe I'm going to have to agree w/Wenchy Young-lan's affirmation about her having a low what was it..."level of consciousness." I'd have gotten all over him for that statement. "What and you don't think I should be the one who regrets marrying you after having to serve your loser family hand and foot AND you make me give half the jewelry back to that coniving ESM?"
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Post by hachiue on Jan 5, 2005 15:24:49 GMT -5
Yes, yes, yes and YES! I don't know, maybe I'm going to have to agree w/Wenchy Young-lan's affirmation about her having a low what was it..."level of consciousness." I'd have gotten all over him for that statement. "What and you don't think I should be the one who regrets marrying you after having to serve your loser family hand and foot AND you make me give half the jewelry back to that coniving ESM?" And she said in the episode that she would give all the jewelry back! I don't know, but if I were her, as soon as I found all of that, the jewelry would've been adorning me and I would've put that gold away somewhere. If anyone had said anything I'd have just brushed it off (like she did so skillfully when ESM and GD were doing housework). She's the one who initiated the whole process of getting everything back. And if ESM had gotten into the trunk of the car, you'd better believe that she wouldn't give any of it back to them.
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Post by bettyboop on Jan 5, 2005 18:48:02 GMT -5
im still having a hard time getting over the fact that everybody seems so peachy with ESM. it's like they have all forgotten what she's done. she almost made them go bankrupt.. jeeez. must be some really forgiving people
and about jinkook saying that he was regretting getting married, maybe he was being sarcastic and joking like he is sometimes, but then the way he said it didnt really seem like he was joking...
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Post by toranaga on Jan 5, 2005 20:06:18 GMT -5
I don't have anything to say regarding the comments made about jin-kook but what I will say is,he has also shown her extraordinary acts of kindness also,did he not pay off the loan to save her house from an auction,since they got married he has consistently told her to not overwork herself,to hire a maid etc. I don't remember him ever refusing one of her request no matter how silly.
on another note jin-kook acts like a normal male when it comes to the women in his life,he will give her all that is under heaven within his power to give except the complete surrender of his own will.
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Post by panther on Jan 5, 2005 23:34:09 GMT -5
i kinda agree with you toranaga....even though jin kook sometimes say insensitive things he do love hee-soo.
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Post by hachiue on Jan 7, 2005 12:29:05 GMT -5
I have figured out the problem with Jin-kook! He looks like a metrosexual, but he does not act like one; instead he acts like a strong silent type, in that he doesn't gossip like a woman and share every aspect of his life with Hee-soo, even though he loves her and will do things for her. He's just the strong silent type stuck in a girly man's body, to use the two different stereotypes that he seems to be crossing.
(Sorry if I insulted anyone's Jin-kook fantasy!! He's still a cutie.)
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Post by panther on Jan 7, 2005 13:39:30 GMT -5
LOL....girly mans body ;D
i agree jin-kook might look the part of a sensitive "lets cuddle" type of man but he is definantly the opposite. as a matter of fact i detect a little mean streak in him.
but thats cool because hee-soo is down right sneaky!
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Post by sandy on Jan 8, 2005 23:47:01 GMT -5
It's interesting to read everyone's opinions, but I still don't think that Hee-Soo is conniving or sneaky. Now if Hee-Soo had been a business woman, used to the ways of the world, I would agree. I think Hee-Soo is very compassionate toward everyone, but wants to secure, for herself, a normal life, especially now being pregnant. Hee-Soo has spent much time trying to understand Jin-Kook, mending the relationship between his parents, even becoming a surrogate mother to Jin-Soo. Her husband still carries on with her ex-SIL, interested in her presence and making business deals with her.
Hee-Soo walked into a mess with the nasty business between Jin-Kook's parents. Jin-Kook has been very difficult to deal with, but she's tried so hard to make peace with everyone, so I think it's time for her to find some happiness.
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