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Post by puppy on Mar 26, 2008 16:32:05 GMT -5
What a comment, brooklyn! The way doc leads with his fists whenever he sees Baekho and Danpung together makes me agree that he might hit her after they're married. She's seen his anger but not truly directed towards her. I hope she wizes up.
And about the stalking, door60, you forgot Seonjae lurking around Jiyeong, and Baekho's little office mate (the one with the pouty ears who sits opposite him) always somehow being where she can eavesdrop on what he's saying. I never noticed all the spying until you mentioned it. It's unsettling.
And last, but never least, Soapy, those dear, pushy mothers. Nobody contradicts them. You'd think Jongsun might remember the fortune-teller's prediction when she sees how unhappy Sua and Seonjae are and maybe, just maybe, back off from making the same mistake with her daughter. But nooo...
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Post by door60 on Mar 26, 2008 17:42:28 GMT -5
You're right about the additional stalking, puppy. And everyone, I will be just very happy if my son marries a woman who kind of likes me!
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Post by tinkerbell on Mar 26, 2008 19:17:21 GMT -5
Doc is like Sua in a way, he gets angry and throws fists (instead of fits) when things don't go as he wants. He really didn't listen from the beginning when Danpung said she just wanted to be friends. He just kept pushing himself on her. I agree, he is a stalker. Danpung went out to meet Baekho because he had a great idea for the dumplings. As said before, Doc calls Danpung all the time, so he calls her house and mother says she is out with Baekho. As usual Creepy's blood starts to boil. He calls Danpung and she lies to him and says she is at home ready to go to sleep. The anger he showed was the worst so far and is sure to only escalate. For once I wish Baekho would deck him and put him in his place. He's bigger and stronger, he just needs to be confident and stand up for himself. Mrs. Na was criticizing Baekho for calling so late but didn't have a problem with "Dr. Jang" calling late. Is it just me or does Doc look like he plumped up his lips and wears lipstick? I swear a few times he looked as if he was wearing a nicer shade than Danpung.
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Post by soapygrams on Mar 26, 2008 20:24:24 GMT -5
;D Maybe he wants Angelina Jolie lips? He does in fact look as though he's wearing lipstick AND lip gloss - gee - I'd think one of them would be enough for his pouty, sneering looks. In today's episode, Dangpung finally realizes that she DOES NOT want to get engaged. Her friend tells her to end it now before it goes any further; that love cannot be "learned" - some of the best advice I"ve heard so far in this show. and from a co-worker not a family member with an agenda of their own. At this point. Damgpung seems to be doing some heavy-duty thinking - ABOUT TIME!
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Post by tinkerbell on Mar 27, 2008 12:22:07 GMT -5
YES, I've noticed the lip gloss too !!! He must want to have kissable lips. Great news soapygrams, it's about time for sure. I hope she listens otherwise she will regret marrying him.
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Post by PippiBella on Mar 27, 2008 20:28:29 GMT -5
Danpung says she want to postpone the engagement... dr scary says well i do not agree.. what!! you can't have an engagement let alone a marriage with out both parties saying yes!! i can't believe dr scary told danpung "why she did not say anything before the parents met"! did she have a chance! ::)everyone practically has them married off and moved to the states and she would be home with the kids!! give me a break!! and what is up with seonjerk trying to make his sister marry with no love and have a horrible marriage like him!! i don't get it!! marriage is a big step which i believe it should last forever.. so how can you marry if you are unsure, don't love or are scared of your partner!? does he want to have every one unhappy too.!! marriage should be taken seriously . that is why there is so many divorces.. Dr scary really creeps me out.. and his mom.. she looks nice until you offend her by saying you don't want to marry yet and her claws come out too. dr scary mom..
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Post by soapygrams on Mar 27, 2008 21:14:12 GMT -5
I really like Dangpung and think she is a strong, good hearted person and I DO NOT like the Doctor/whatever. HOWEVER, Dangpung has a very large share of the blame for tis happening. She had LOTS OF TIME to tell the doc to back off and she didn't. Time after time she had that look on her face but said NOTHING. Yes, he is pushy and so is his mother. But his mother did not get involved until AFTER she met Dangpung, they talked about marrying etc. All this time never once did Dangpung say - HEY - STOP - I AM NOT READY TO GET ENGAGED OR MARRIED. Not once. As I said, I don't like the doc but in fairness, Dangpung has to shoulder some of the blame for not being verbal with her feelings and letting him ASSUME she agreed with what he wanted from her. When they kissed and she rebuked him, he looked totally startled. If he acted clueless it's because he was - she kept giving mixed signals and he read into it what he wanted. I am glad she finally spoke up and told him NO - Finally!
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Post by puppy on Mar 28, 2008 17:27:51 GMT -5
Hear, hear, Soapy! Danpung HAS to share the responsibility for her plight. She claims she's too busy working to know about love but that's all the more reason to take your time before rushing headlong into marriage.
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Post by tinkerbell on Mar 28, 2008 18:13:35 GMT -5
I agree PippiBella, Soapygrams and Puppy.
I couldn't understand why Danpung wasn't saying anything either. In the beginning she did tell Doc she just wanted to be friends, but he kept pursuing her. She definitely should have expressed her feelings when the subject of marriage was brought up. Why would anybody get married if they weren't sure? PippiBella is right, marriage is a serious matter. How can a person not know what love feels like? Even if it were the first time, you just know it's not like anything you've ever felt before.
Doesn't she notice the difference between her time spent with Baekho and the Doc? Yes, a lot of her interaction is work related with Baekho but which one does she have fun with? Being friends, having fun and laughing together is important in a relationship. Basically all she and the doc do is go out to eat. He's sort of boring.
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Post by puppy on Mar 29, 2008 8:38:54 GMT -5
Yes! Boring! That's it Tink!
The doc may be creepy, pushy, and a little hard on the eyes but I think what really gets me is how dull he is. Baekho, Dalhyeon (sp?) and even Seonjae are so much more interesting to watch. Eveb Jiyeong's new beau has a certain style. I like to see him all scientific in the lab with his white coat and then, off he goes in his jeans and bike helmet.
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Post by tinkerbell on Apr 1, 2008 13:32:42 GMT -5
Now I see how alike the doc and his mom are. She totally changed character when Danpung told her how she wanted to postpone the engagement. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. and Mrs. Hyde. You're right PippiBella, Danpung should have spoken up sooner but she was railroaded too. Nobody took her feelings into consideration or asked how she felt. They made all the plans themselves.
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Post by puppy on Apr 1, 2008 18:19:48 GMT -5
Don't know if this the place, but I have a language question.
Sometimes a speaker adds "shay" at the end of a name, ie., Kang Baekho-shay. And sometimes they add, "a" or "ya" as in Jiyeong-a or Sua-yah. Why and what's the difference?
Anybody?
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Post by PippiBella on Apr 1, 2008 20:26:49 GMT -5
Don't know if this the place, but I have a language question. Sometimes a speaker adds "shay" at the end of a name, ie., Kang Baekho-shay. And sometimes they add, "a" or "ya" as in Jiyeong-a or Sua-yah. Why and what's the difference? Anybody? I have noticed that too, but have never brought it up. on another note.. I am glad that danpung is standing up for herself and ending the engagement.. but i fear that Mrs na and heynu will keep going on with the plans... I was mrs na i would leave the room just the way brat leaves it. let seonjerk clean it up or let brat do it..
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Post by brooklyn on Apr 1, 2008 22:53:48 GMT -5
Hmm, I dunno but I'm thinking it's the level of respect/love? shown or maybe the age of the person, puppy.
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Post by Soju on Apr 2, 2008 8:14:35 GMT -5
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