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Post by fan on Jul 18, 2007 20:07:30 GMT -5
There is now a lot of "disownership" going around. Jiyeon's father wants to divorce wife no. 2 so that jiyeon and Taesop who he thinks of as his son - can marry. Jiyeon's mum is saying since she is not her real mother, they can cut ties so she can have new family with the Taesop and her/their? father! So easy to discard people ah!
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Post by soapygrams on Jul 18, 2007 21:51:19 GMT -5
There is now a lot of "disownership" going around. Jiyeon's father wants to divorce wife no. 2 so that jiyeon and Taesop who he thinks of as his son - can marry. Jiyeon's mum is saying since she is not her real mother, they can cut ties so she can have new family with the Taesop and her/their? father! So easy to discard people ah! I think it's a matter of how you view it - is the glass half full or half empty? Are they going to do these things because of love and so that others can be happy? or are they just tired of their marriage? I think it can be viewed as a huge sacrifice rather than a selfish motive to separate. Just MHO -
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Post by fan on Jul 19, 2007 1:53:30 GMT -5
A sacrifice but not made by the one who declares it. Taesop's mother does not want the divorce. How can the father make this declaration of sacrifice that his wife and and their son have to bear just because he feel guilty over Jiyeon? And Jiyeon's mother did not declare her disownership as a declaration of love but of anger. It was also out of anger that Jiyeon insisted her father divorce his second wife.
Oh, we know how the show will end. But I really dislike Jiyeon more and more.
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Post by violet on Jul 19, 2007 11:51:51 GMT -5
me too, fan, she's very self-centered. If you think back to hosp. scene when Junho crashed with snake, Jiyeon had already decided to divorce, despite Junho's telling her he was respons for accident by reaching over and grabbing wheel, and that's why he didn't want snake to die. Jiyeon eavesdropped w/o hearing full story from Junho to snake when he told her 'thanks for living' but it was the end. Jiyeon was just as guilty 'cuz she always had cop guy on her mind/hanging around. She's two-faced jerk. mikey apprec. all your info. ur2good. so cop guy w/finally get answers to questions he couldn't get from Jiyeon about type of guy (tall, etc.) she was attracted to. 2-faced jerk she is didn't want to turn him off by saying she liked tall man.
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Post by violet on Jul 22, 2007 11:50:02 GMT -5
mikey I'm luv'n this drama now. Ur splr re Junho's spending day w/HIS daughter showed last nite. But I was unhappy about Jiyeon telling daughter this man they both knew (and mommy knew very well ) was going to pick her up. What?! Then Junho shows up, they meet outside, he chimes in w/same thing. Will little girl ever be told Junho is her father? Maybe in tonight's ep. I hope.
best moment of drama to date, when Junho asks Jiyeon (3 x's) if he is still not the father, she says yes, then he angrily slaps her ;D So, so deserving. I was really waiting for one more good slap after he told her she was "selfish, cold-hearted" etc., didn't happen, but she gets all twisted, wanders around in shock after hearing the truth from Junho, ends up at det. guy's house in tears, saying in disbelief, Junho called her selfish, cold-hearted. Two-faced, selfish witch. And, oh, yeah . She told Junho she was going to tell him he was father sometime many years later. Selfish witch, it's all about her. Not the child, not the father, not a grandparent, HER. Child's early years so important and precious. Unforgiveable.
Jiyeon's friend Jongmi can't understand why all these things keep happening to Jiyeon. "K A R M A", Jongmi, check it out.
last nite's ending had Junho telling his sil that he's calling off wedding. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by soapygrams on Jul 22, 2007 21:19:05 GMT -5
mikey. . . saying in disbelief, Junho called her selfish, cold-hearted. Two-faced, selfish witch. Let's just backtrack a bit here. When it comes to SELFISH, TWO-FACED I think HE could win that prize hands-down. HE is the one that was cheating on her - over and over again - after he promised her it was all over and he would never be with that conniving Hussy again. So a little bit of understanding here about why she did what she did. How would you like to have your husband lie and cheat on you? You might want to lie right back to him - it's a very natural reaction. And in this case, he deserved what he got. She and he should sit down away from the child and have an intelligent UNEMOTIONAL conversation about what is in the best interest of this little girl. In this country, his slapping her would be grounds for arrest on assault - they are divorced and "strangers under the law". I don't give a tic how much you think it's deserved, hitting another person who is not physically threatening you is violence against another person. Self-defense is an entirely different matter. That was pure temper and anger - and look who was calling the kettle black. She should have smacked him back and told him off.
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Post by otaku on Jul 22, 2007 21:38:54 GMT -5
Yes, soapygrams, Jiyeon has earned her right to be "selfish". I loved the look on Junho's face when he saw Taeseop and Jiyeon together. Priceless!
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Post by teacher on Jul 22, 2007 22:05:45 GMT -5
Additionallly, what right did mother-in-law have to interfere and to slap Jiyeon. I had hoped that she would have hit MIL back. No matter what the circumstances, he had absolutely NO right to slap Jiyeon. I have no sympathy for his pain. In addition to Junho's cheating on his wife, he certainly is not acting honorably to his tramp fiancee. I see no redeeming qualities for this man.
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Post by violet on Jul 23, 2007 1:21:12 GMT -5
mikey sure hope Junho's conversation w/ sappy det. guy includes a blow to det's jaw. Poor Junho had to sit and watch that sap hold his daughter?! Seems 2-faced witch is bent on screwing w/little kid's mind; guess one can't expect anything else from such an airhead. It's one thing for the idiot to date the sap, but to throw the kid in the middle of the relationship is unconscionable. Jiyeon deserves another SLAP.
Hope Junho tells sap to keep his hands off and never touch his daughter again. Go for it, Junho -- full custody, that is! aja aja fighting!
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Post by HappyCamper on Jul 23, 2007 8:50:47 GMT -5
Soapygrams, I agree with you totally. I have no sympathy for Junho at all. He was a liar and a cheat and never planned to change his ways. I admire Jiyeon's courage in taking the path she chose. She deserves some happiness now, and the detective is the perfect guy to give her some. Junho and the ugly witch deserve each other. I wish they'd move to another country and leave poor Jiyeon alone. That family has caused her enough pain already. Can you imagine if they have a say in raising Jiyeon's daughter? *shudders at the thought* Such selfish and self centered people shouldn't be allowed to raise an innocent child. This drama is getting good
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Post by brenda on Jul 24, 2007 6:57:14 GMT -5
I agree, happy camper,
if junho had kept his pants zipped in the first place & honored his vows, his little girl wouldn't be in the middle of this, but noooo, he's even stupid enough to get into evil woman's car, now we all saw that coming! then to go to her hospital room again, don't they have phones? even a telegram would have been better, matter if fact it should have been her apologizing to him for luring him into the car. I know it's right to have a child know both parents, but HIS family? especially wicked mil! the sil, too, seems to be 2-faced, going along with mil, prying in jiyeon's biz & then saying she couldn't stop mil, ha!
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Post by FlowerLady on Jul 27, 2007 22:09:00 GMT -5
I agree with you brenda, happy camper, teacher, otaku and soapygrams. Jiyeon was really a happily married wife from the start, totally in love with her husband. They had a close, fun and loving relationship until clueless, selfish Junho *repeatedly* just could not resist the outrageous interference of the homewrecker Ugly Trampster. His relationship was not a "one-night stand mistake". Jiyeon was just so destroyed by his repeated betrayal that she understandably just could no longer trust him. She could not allow him to devastate her world again. Incidentally, my hair stylist is a sweet lady from Korea who discusses the ongoing K-drama storylines with me during haircuts. Anyway, she told me she feels that one of the main reasons Jiyeon was so afraid to tell Junho that she was pregnant and then had the baby is because in Korea, there is no joint custody situation. Apparently, when there a divorce, the father is generally the parent automatically awarded custody of any underage children, since they carry his family last name. Does anyone have any info on this?
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Post by PippiBella on Jul 28, 2007 13:52:20 GMT -5
That is not fair!! X( what if it is the fault of the father that the divorce happened! i don't agree that jyeon keep the father away from the baby but i do agree about not trusting him anymore. i believe if you cheat on the person you say you love, than you really don't care or love the other person. if was in her shoes i would leave my husband because i could not trust him anymore. a marriage can only last if there is RESPECT, HONOR , HONESTY and LOVE. not just one or the other.. but i would not keep the child away from my ex unless he was an abuser or child molestor or something of that nature. i am married and i really felt bad for jyeon when her life fell apart. i would have felt the same if my husband did that to me. i hope junho does not run away with eunjii. i am afraid of junho mothers actions when she finds out.. she is a witch!! > junho's problem is that he lets others run his life... get a pair and deal with your life!
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Post by teacher on Jul 28, 2007 14:21:41 GMT -5
It is my understanding that it IS the case that the child's father has all rights to take the child. This is especially true if his family is rich and/or influential. In My Sweetheart, My Darling, that was what the witch MIL wanted to do with Haejin's?? baby. In light of this, I can see Jiyeon keeping the baby's father's identity a secret. Also, in doing so, she brings embarassment on herself as a loose woman in having a baby with another man before being divorced from her husband. I think this also shows her love for her baby, in wanting to raise her in the best possible way.
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Post by PippiBella on Jul 28, 2007 14:23:21 GMT -5
Ditto!
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