sandy
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Post by sandy on Sept 27, 2005 23:15:59 GMT -5
Unfortunately, poor Jae-min, who is thinking that In-young would be a perfect wife and mother, will be drawn into this dysfunctional triangle that Ki-joon has created which is IY, his crazy mother and Hee-joo. JM can marry IY, then worry that she's only doing this so that KJ can marry HJ, thus pleasing his crazy mother who wants grandchildren. JM has a child to raise, so he may be wondering if IY will always be there for his son.
I don't blame IY at all because she became a victim of KJ's making. When she left KJ, it was to free him so that he could marry a woman who could have children. IY is such a kind, compassionate person that she'll never forget KJ. She's trying to go on with her own life, but KJ interferes making it impossible for her. It was arrogant for him to think that IY would just stay single so that they could still be "married" in some way.
I think all of us are screaming at KJ to just leave his mother behind and to live his own life. If he thinks that Hee-joo will bring some peace to his life, he better think that divorce #2 is coming his way because HJ won't be intimidated by his mother.
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Post by Lucy on Sept 28, 2005 11:56:37 GMT -5
It would be nice if IY and JM married. I loved when JM, IY, and Him-chan went to the zoo. They were like a perfect family. They were so happy. If JM and IY married, this is the happiness they will have. But I don't see any love connection between JM and IY. Sure, JM seems to be developing feelings for IY. But IY, as much as she tries, will not feel that strong love connection with JM that she does with KJ. True. Still, I think it would be a good outcome for In-young. Jae-min can be "father" to her baby, especially if they create the legal pretense that he's the real father and put the baby on his family's register (if that system is still in effect). Then SM will have no access to HER grandchild and can go stew in it. She will be very sorry that she drove away In-young and thus her grandchild by Ki-joon. On second thought, she won't be, because she never thinks she's the cause of anything bad happening. She'll probably tell everyone that In-young orchestrated the whole thing out of spite.
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Post by TheBo on Sept 28, 2005 22:09:45 GMT -5
Hoju was overturned recently, but I don't know what effect that is going to have. I assume they are working on that part.
Bo
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Catalpa
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Post by Catalpa on Sept 28, 2005 23:15:43 GMT -5
Oh yeah, and what about Hee-Joo. I'm on birth control. I don't want to have a baby right away. I thought Screechy Mama was going to give birth to an elephant right there in the living room!
While In Young might not have some passionate swept away feeling, I think she's very comfortable with Jae Min and his son, and I think she really loves the little boy. Love can spring up in many situations, but not for KiJoon who was basically forced to marry someone he even like.
I guess I'm saying it seems the relationship betw IY and JM is fertile ground for love while KJ and HJ's relationship seems like the ground has been salted. How sad that HJ has "settled' for a man who is madly in love with another woman and doesn't even really like her.
Not sure if I'm saying what I really mean. Does this make any sense?
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sandy
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Post by sandy on Sept 28, 2005 23:45:02 GMT -5
I haven't seen the episode where HJ doesn't want to get pregnant, but it's no surprise because HJ is calling the shots in this marriage. SM may end up longing for the days when IY kept saying "yes, mother" as she went for her fertility treatments.
I think IY and JM are taking their time forming a relationship since both of them have been married before. IY met KJ at a school reunion, then married him a few months later. IY is doing the right thing by overcoming her horrible last few years. JM has to be careful that he's not racing into marriage to bring Him-chan a mother. Their relationship will be a mature one based on love whereas KJ's and HJ's marriage already seems like a desert. There's no passion there when the newly wed husband stays at work late at night. HJ shouldn't be surprised because he told her that his marriage to her is only to satisfy his crazy mother.
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Post by Lucy on Sept 29, 2005 12:25:27 GMT -5
Sandy, I believe that thing about HJ being on birth control is in tonight's episode, but it was shown in the subtitled previews in episode 104(?) last night.
I don't think IY is going to want to marry JM; at least, she's not in what I would consider the right frame of mind, but she probably will if he asks, won't she? Especially after she finds out she's pregnant. What I want her to feel is happiness, gratitude, and a sense of "it's better the second time around, without all the drama and with a handsome, kind man to look after me." It would really be for the best, because unless HJ dies an early, peaceful death and SM does likewise, there is no future for IY and Ki-joon.
P.S. Did Ki-joon and Hee-joo actually sleep together yet? I saw them wake up together in the same bed, and HJ had her arm over him, but it's not even clear if they have done the deed. I guess they must have or HJ would be really angry with him.
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Post by ginnycat5 on Sept 29, 2005 12:41:57 GMT -5
Lucy, the way HJ was counting which days were actually "honeymoon" days makes me think they did the deed, otherwise, they wouldn't count, like the day KJ had the fever. imo. Also if she's on birth control, that sounds like she needs it. Bet it isn't too frequent, tho, he'd rather fall asleep early. What a mess. At least HJ doesn't have to do housework. Wonder if KJ will notice and want HJ to work like a DIL is supposed to. Probably he won't want to rock the boat, tho.
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Raven
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Post by Raven on Oct 2, 2005 21:17:01 GMT -5
I also didn't see that episode when she says she is using birth control but the way you describe it I feel sorry for missing SM face when she heard it. Did she cursed her out. I bet that Hee-joo turns out to be a worse DIL that SM ever tough possible. ;D Awesome I don't feel that bad tough for Jae-min because if he get with In-Young he already knows that she loves Ki-joon and she is doing all that for the love she feels for him no matter who she hurts. Plus if he gets with her is at his own risk knowing what he already knows.
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